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Monthly Archives: February 2017

Romantic Home Dates

Prepare their favorite food

Create a banquet of their favorite food. You can choose two courses with appetizer and dessert. For the years of being were together, you definitely learn a thing or two of their favorite things. So, choose one or two that will appeal to the taste buds of your partner. You can top it off with a fancy wine from the liquor store a few blocks from home. Finish this off through serving it in a cheesy restaurant-styled table arrangement. Can you imagine the fun (or disaster) while making this surprise dinner?

Recreate the first date

Step-up the surprise by recreating your first date. You can wear that shirt or dress you wore on the first date. You can spout few cheesy lines that you remember stuttering during that date, and have a good laugh about it. The night may not end up successfully in replaying the first date, but it will make you realize how far you have come as a couple. This will remind you why you chose to be together in the first place.

Foam bath with flower petals

After that delicious dinner, you and your partner can have a relaxing bath. Buy fragrant blossoms from their favorite florist. You should pick out the petals of the blooms and filing the tub with it. Don’t forget the soap and oil to truly pamper yourselves. Who needs movie-slash-cuddling when you can unwind with aromatherapy? This is definitely a new way to step up your dating game.

Be Good Girlfriend

Be open. Don’t be distant and secretive. Be affectionate and demonstrative with your feelings, smile and laugh a lot, talk to each other and use positive body language. He will love you more for making him feel good about himself and be able to see potential in the relationship.

Like Yourself. Women who are comfortable with themselves are much more attractive to men. He does not enjoy constantly having to boost your ego or listen to you pull yourself down. Learn to love yourself first and your man will love you back.

Don’t play mind games. Men like to know exactly where they stand, so don’t expect him to second-guess what it is you want. Always be clear and upfront with your wants and needs so that he knows what you are asking of him.

Don’t over-criticize him. Men, like women, need approval. If you are always criticizing him, he may feel that he can never please you, so will start to pull away. Instead of criticizing, tell him what he does well and he will automatically want to do more.

Don’t take advantage. The old-fashioned attitude that the man should pay for everything does not stand in today’s world. Although a lot of men do like to treat their girlfriend to a meal or drinks when they first start dating, in the long term they are looking for someone who can be a mate on equal terms, so do not take advantage of his generosity.

Keep some independence. Being too needy and wanting to spend every minute together can be a big turn-off. Make sure you have your own interests outside of the relationship so that he can too. Everyone needs some space to do their own thing and spend time with their friends.

Show respect for him and men in general. Take time to get to know him as an individual and don’t automatically assume that he is the same as other men you may have come across before. Accept his past and don’t make an issue over what he did before he met you. Respect his beliefs even if you don’t agree with them.

Be yourself. Don’t hide behind alcohol or drugs. If he thinks that you need to be drunk to have a good time then your relationship will be short-lived. He needs to know you as a real person if he is going to spend a lot of time with you and introduce you to his family and friends.

Have a good sense of humour. The ability to laugh together is a great aphrodisiac. If you can see the funny side of situations instead of being stressed and serious all of the time, then this will make your time together much more fun and memorable. Being with someone who rarely laughs and is miserable will gradually wear him down.

Impress Guy on First Date

Carry yourself well. The way you walk and carry yourself attracts and impress men. It is necessary to dress appropriately and put some effort on your overall looks and style for your first date but it is how you carry yourself that can really impress a guy on a first date. Even if you made a great effort on your looks but failed to carry yourself with confidence, then your date won’t be impressed. Your appearance matters but your good looks must be coupled with confidence to be able to make a lasting impression on your first date. If you are comfortable and confident with yourself, then you are on the right path to impress a guy on a first date.

Ask him to talk about himself. The first date is a getting to know each other and although it is not advisable to divulge everything about yourself on a first date, it is not good to be so quiet. Most men expect that women love to talk about themselves but it will be a good surprise if you will show interest and ask him to talk about his job, career, hobbies, family, etc. It means that you are interested to know him and you actually want a good conversation with him. Men are usually not big talkers and usually not comfortable expressing themselves, if you can make him talk about himself for a change, that would really impress him. To impress a guy on a first date, make him talk about himself.

Listen. Asking questions to show you are interested is one thing but listening is another thing. You will not leave a good impression if you are just asking him questions to somehow appear that you are interested but not actually listening to what he’s talking about. Everybody wants to be heard when they are talking and men are no different, they want to be heard too. You’ll be amazed on how as simple as listening or absorbing what he’s saying can impress a guy on a first date.

Talk about your interest. Most people talk about their jobs, so for a change talk about your hobbies and other interest. Who knows, you and your date might discover you both have the same interest. Sharing about your hobbies and interest will show that you are an independent woman who knows what you really want and that is pretty impressive. Sharing a little bit about yourself and what interests you can be very helpful to impress a guy on a first date.

Exercise good manners and right conduct. Women should be refined and must display good manners. Being rude and too loud will not help you make a good impression on your first date. Be courteous and do not forget to say thank you and please. It will not only show that you have good manners but it will also show that you’ve been brought up well by your parents.

Create a pleasant atmosphere on your date. It is good to be relaxed on your first date but do not get too relaxed that you find it comfortable to complain about things that should not be discussed on your first date. If you want to impress a guy on a first date, leave the drama and stress at work or at home. If you had a bad day, your first date is not the venue to complain about your issues at work and at home. Keep a pleasant and positive atmosphere on your date. He will be impressed on how positive and pleasant you are when in reality, the world is a stressful place to live in.

Make Men Want You

The thing is, we cannot control the process (just so you know, neither can a guy, and if he likes you, he’s probably just as scared as you about messing things up).

And if you try to push him to seal the deal, you may get him to do that, only to wake up one morning and realize he’s not the right guy for you.

What you need to do is take a deep breath. Say to yourself, “This person may be right for me. Then again, he may not. I am willing to relax, see what happens, and find out.

Here’s your new motto:

“Let’s see what happens.”

So you go out with him without the intention of making a good impression or “getting him to the next level.” You go with the intention of looking and feeling and being your best and enjoying your time with him. You listen to learn more about him. You look to see more about him. You laugh. You have fun. You are there to see what happens.

Your new attitude has a lovely side benefit:

He picks up on it. He feels your lack of urgency and desperation. Your grace and ease around him telegraph your value. He understands that you are a woman who’s taking her time. He knows you deserve the right guy, not just any guy. It’s clear you’re not going to settle.

A quality woman doesn’t scheme or manipulate. She doesn’t have to work so hard. She knows what she has to offer. Do you know what you have to offer? If not, sit down with a pen and paper right this second. Write down every good quality and talent you possess. Write down your achievements. Write down the last ten compliments you can remember receiving.

Then go out and carry yourself with the confidence of a quality woman who knows what she has to offer.

And see what happens.