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Category Archives: Relationship

Get Soul Mate

1. Get yourself out there.

If you expect to get your mate at some point, chances are that you are going to take part in an exciting activity known as dating. Dating can be a hassle, and occasionally more than disappointing. However, dating can take a lot of forms and with a little bit of confidence, self-respect and creativity, you can find the person of your dreams.

Attend functions, social events and concerts. These are ideal locations where you can find the right person for you. The world is mysterious and the more you attend events that interest you, the higher your chances of meeting that special person.

Make your public profile quite fascinating, engaging and honest. This is what people will first digest when they look at your profile.

Make a genuine effort to reach out people. Take your time to craft engaging messages and send them to the social channels.

2. Do not make the same mistakes again.

Dating can be tough, and if you want to get a mate, you have to respect and be committed to dating

Do not put yourself into abusive relationships, as abusive relationships make you lose trust in each other. Respect your dignity. Seek a relationship expert if you suspect that you might be in an abusive relationship.

Do not fall back with the same person you have dated and broken up with for many times. They can never make to be your mate.

Soul mates are two individuals who have been together during a given lifetime to heal something from a past life or previous lives. Their relationship with each other is profound and loving.

Man Dating Over 60

She is still emotional

You might be expecting that because she has had her fair share of ups and downs in life that she has toughened up. In as much as this could be true, the emotional side of the woman is likely to remain just as sensitive and you must be very careful how you treat and deal with her emotions. Women are very easy to please and just as easy to hurt because they attach emotions, even to the things that look very small to you. Think before you say or do anything to you are able to handle her well emotionally.

She has true feelings

Just because you have met a few women who had nothing much going on but playing for fun does not mean that every woman you meet will be the same. Women over 60 are still capable of developing very strong feelings and the truth is that because they know what they are after, they will rarely have time to play games with their true feelings. The least you can do is to get in touch with her true feelings and you will not only manage to place the relationship where it should be but you will also make finding ways to make and keep her happy.

She does have her likes and dislikes

She might not have placed them all on her dating profile, but it doesn’t mean that they are nonexistent. Just because she is over 60 you cannot assume that she is desperate and will take anything that comes her way. To be successful dating an over 60 woman you must be willing to find out what she likes and what she does not like at all. You can unveil them one by one as you get to know each other so that you are able to love her as she desires and to make her love you for who you are even if you might have one habit she might find irritating. To have an okay relationship you must both be willing to compromise, but how you approach it can make all the difference.

Avoid Being Friendzoned

Learn to be more attractive. Sometimes men are friendzoned because they are not attractive enough to the opposite sex. The good thing is that attractiveness is not an inborn trait, you can learn how to be more attractive physically and personality wise. By increasing the level of your attractiveness, you can avoid being friendzoned. If you are too shy and lacks self-confidence, you can learn to be more sociable and confident to increase your level of attractiveness. Social skills can be very attractive to the opposite sex. When it comes to physical appearance, there are physical aspects that you can improve to be more attractive without a major plastic surgery. You can improve your physical appearance by learning to dress well and groom well. Keeping a good posture, staying fit or staying physically active and healthy are attractive physical traits to most women.

Make your intentions clear from the beginning. What most men are afraid of is outright rejection so they sometimes choose the safe path like acting as a friend because it is easier. This approach creates confusion to the other party and uncertainty on your part. Creating confusion from the start by not communicating what you really want may hurt more in the end if you eventually get dumped or friendzoned. It is best to be clear with what you want from the start and face rejection upfront if she’s not interested than use friendship as a cover but in reality you want more than that. You can move on as soon as possible and find someone who is interested in you. Stop wasting your time on someone who is not interested and get hurt in the end. Make your intentions clear and avoid being friendzoned.

Don’t appear too desperate. Sometimes men are friendzoned because they do all the work, give all the favors and act as if they are too desperate to get the girl. There are women who want to keep a man with this behavior as a friend or she wants you to stick around without the responsibility of being your girlfriend. They want the benefits from you but do not want the responsibility of having a relationship with you. To avoid being friendzoned, stop being too nice and doing all the work. It is best to allow the other person to value you and do something for you in return. After all, a relationship will not work if one is always the giver and the other is always the receiver. Both should contribute to satisfy each other’s needs. Don’t settle for less than what you deserve.

Relationship Mistakes Guys

You should not get intimate with her because of her high social class or personality. I have observed that guys from humble background often partake in this act in order to gain some influential and financial advantages.

You should work out better ways for yourself to feel useful and not rely on other’s advantages. It makes people think little of you if you are always looking out to them for certain privileges.

You should stop judging your lady too often. It makes her feel invaluable, flexible and feasible to make more mistakes. Your relationship should not be feasible to mistakes. You have to encourage her to be better, improve and grow.

In a relationship, whenever you want to correct or impact, you should be watchful of your words and its influence on your audience. You should not use wrong words to correct her. It will make her feel little of herself and possibly make her feel unwanted and unappreciated. This alone could drive her away.

If you truly love her, learn from her how you could possibly transform her.

Exercising too much control over her will drive her away from you. This will cause her to hide things from you. A relationship on secrets will only produce lies and frustration. If you want to have genuine and sincere relationship, let the love affair be flexible.

Information of Single Parent Dating

THINK YOU’RE TOO OLD TO DATE ANYMORE?

To be honest, no one is too old for a date! Everyone deserves some love in their lives! There is absolutely no reason for you to feel insecure about yourself, post your big breakup. Put your past behind you, be confident, and step into the arena with your head held high. Nothing is sexier that a healthy dose of confidence.

EXTRA POUNDS TO SHED

Getting back into the dating game is not easy. Apart from the emotional turmoil, there is always the fear that you are far from your ‘A’ Game, physically. For some it’s post baby weight for others they have just let themselves go. Just get yourself out, wear your snazziest clothes and take along your charming personality, that should do the trick. In case you still aren’t convinced, a wardrobe change is a quick fix and a structured workout schedule a more long term solution.

IS YOUR SCHEDULE PACKED?

You are probably juggling multiple things and time to date and find the man/woman of your dreams almost seems impossible. It’s more about prioritizing and finding the small windows of opportunity as a start. A great way is to get onto online dating sites or the multiple dating apps that are there in the market. Once that is out of the way and you have options galore, schedule dates during your leisure time or on weekends.

SHOULD I DATE A PARENT OR A NON-PARENT?

You may want to date another single parent, obviously as there will be lots to bond over and it’s just easier since you both have a common start point. This however doesn’t mean you have to close all doors on non-parent women/men. If he/she seems understanding and mature enough, then there is nothing stopping you from going for it!

TO INTRODUCE OR NOT TO INTRODUCE?

Introducing your child to your partner is something you should think about too. If you’re unsure about the longevity of your relationship, steer clear from introducing your kids. Kids tend to become attached soon and in case things go awry, it’ll add complications that you don’t need.

Show Your Sensitive Side

Learn To Dance

The next way that you can show a bit of a different side is to learn how to dance. I kid you not. Most men don’t take lessons. That’s where you will be different. Go forward and learn how to dance right. Not just close quarters, but ballet and salsa and more. The more you can move, the more you will show her that you’re a lot different than others and she will appreciate that you’re learning how to show your sensitive side.

Volunteer Anywhere

You want to give to others. OK, you may not “want” to, but you have to. You absolutely need to push yourself into these areas, especially when it comes to children, homeless people, and even battered women shelters. No matter where there is an opportunity, push it. The more you volunteer, the higher the chances are that you are going to show her a different side of your personality. This will help you. This is will show her that you’re amazing, and that she can trust you. Just go this route, and you’ll gain the upper hand, no doubt.

Dating Rules For Guys

There you are at some wedding reception, bar, event. You name it. You are trying to talk to a woman you think is attractive, but you can’t get two words in edgewise because “Mr. Funny Guy” is running his obnoxious mouth. Has this ever happened to you? – Probably!

So basically, what you want to do is just stay cool, make funny comments here and there when the opportunity presents itself. This lets the woman know you are interested in chatting with her and gives her an “out” when “Mr. Funny Guy” is either done or she has had enough.

You don’t have to be the loudest guy in the room or be the center of attention to get a woman’s attention. So don’t try and talk over Mr. Funny Guy. Doing this would mean you would have to be louder and more obnoxious! Ugh! Eventually Mr. Funny Guy will shoot himself in the foot. He is usually just annoying half the people around anyway, and the woman you are trying to talk too will eventually get tired of his antics and move on. – And if you have been inserting comments when you’ve had the chance, you can be the next thing she moves on to.

You don’t even have to be too assertive. When it comes to dating rules for guys, just making some eye contact and a few comments will let her know that you are indeed interested. So when the break comes from Mr. Funny Guy, be sure to step in. Be calm, cool and confident when you do. – And when you decide to show that you are a funny guy too, just keep your “funniness” in check. Walk the line of funny and cool.

Avoiding Dating Disasters

There is no scientific basis for what I share, and this commentary is intended almost exclusively for women, as I believe that a woman’s profoundly unique inclinations to operate as nurturers and helpmates also tend to make us prime abuser-bait. So as you consider re-entering this realm, these are a few things I would urge you to remember.

  • Remember that you need time to heal. You may never heal completely, but you need to be sufficiently healthy and emotionally strong enough to recognize unsafe or unhealthy men and walk away from them without blinking. There is no specific timeline for testing those waters; however, if you are dangerously fragile and are torn between jumping in or waiting a while longer, please wait. Time for healing and a balanced measure of wholeness are important pursuits and should not be rushed. Furthermore, loneliness is a poor motivation and could leave you vulnerable. You need to be okay by yourself before you can be okay with someone else.
  • Remember the needs of your children. Make sure your home base is well-covered and that your children feel secure and are able to handle any additional time you are away from them. Consider whether they are okay with the idea of you dating. Keep their needs first in this process even if that means waiting.

With children in mind, I personally recommend meeting new people at a neutral, public location rather than your home, at least until you feel like the relationship may have some long-term potential, so that men are not going in and out of your children’s lives. You don’t want them to get the impression that relationships are inherently temporary, nor do you want them to grow too attached to someone who may or may not remain in their lives.

  • Remember that you have already been through hell. If you don’t want to walk that road again, avoid the kind of man who will be more than happy to take you there. Even if you know what kind of relationship you want, you may be attracted to something else, something familiar – and unsafe. This is not a call to paranoia, but rather to caution, a reminder to be willing to see legitimate issues, as we – as recovering abuse victims – have been trained to rationalize away those waving red and yellow flags.
  • Remember to be patient. This is not a race, and you are not looking for any man’s attention, you are waiting for the right man’s attention. Whether you choose to wait for an acquaintance to ask you out to lunch or you decide to join a dating website, try not to panic, push or rush things, and listen, listen, listen to your instincts. Don’t feel any obligation to “make it work.” If that is your attitude, you are likely headed down a very familiar and unhealthy path.
  • Remember that you want a protector not a project. Any man with whom you decide to spend some time should be emotionally and spiritually balanced and healthy. He should be a gentleman, not a show-boater, someone who sees you and hears what you have to say. He should be someone who would clearly look out for your needs rather than merely seeking to meet his own.
  • Remember to set your standards high and hold to them. Just because a guy notices you does not necessarily make him worthy of your attention. You are under no obligation whatsoever to “give a guy a chance.” If there is something in his manner or attitude that makes you uncomfortable, don’t waste your time or his. You’re better off saying, “Thanks, but no thanks.”

Meets Female Resistance

A man can avoid being rejected by having confidence in his own ability to advance and sustain the relationship through his decisive actions that are based on the emotions that he is currently feeling for the woman.

Once she knows how you feel, she will begin testing your confidence, ability and courage to do whatever it is you want to do with her.

When you meet a girl, you need to be interested in her for more than just her body. And you must stay calm.

If she’s your goal, she’ll become attracted to you as you calmly pass her resistance tests.

You found her. Now she intends to find you!

Probably the biggest reason why women want a man “to just be himself,” is because attracting a woman is not about anything fake. It’s not about pick-up lines. It’s about you! And how she relates to you.

You’ll be tested by her to reveal your confidence, patience, emotional calmness, ability, courage, assertiveness, persistence, aggression, playfulness, your vision of the future, how you control your social environment, and if you are happy where you are in your life.

If you have a reasonable grasp on most of these characteristics, you should do alright.

So let’s begin.

Women like taking small steps that lead to bigger steps.

You must be patient and take small steps toward getting her warmed up for what you have planned.

If you concentrate on being up front with your intentions and making small moves and offers that lead to bigger moves and offers. Her receptivity to your escalating moves and offers will give you all the clues you need to know about her level of arousal and her willingness to progress to the next level with you.

If she’s ready, you’ll need to have the courage to take her to the next level.

Unfortunately for her, weak dudes make the mistake of trying to lead her to the next level with a weak attempt, such as; “You could stay the night if you want to.” This shows her his lack of knowledge about her level of arousal and the feelings she has for him, and it indicates his lack of arousal and feelings. So now he has to wait around to get her approval. His approach to the interaction is emotionally weak, so he simply disqualifies himself from having a good night with her, because he won’t ask for what they both want.

Deep inside she wants to be with him, and that’s about as deep inside her as he’s going to get.

Women will reject a man that would rather not display dominant alpha male characteristics. Nice guys always seem to need approval before making a move. That is LAME! He’ll be rejected as a potential mate because he constantly seeks her approval instead of just making solid actionable decisions that are based on information she’s been giving him.

If she says no, then so be it. But, a man has to at least have the courage to try!

The Chase Flip

Let’s look at a strong example of exploiting the read. You kiss her then lean back to look into her eyes while saying, “If you knew what I want to do to you right now.” She’ll ask, “What do you want to do to me?” You take her and gently push her up against a wall, grab her hands and lift them over her head while you kiss her passionately and press your body against hers. Then slowly run your hands down her arms and the sides of her chest, then turn and walk away.

All of a sudden you are the one resisting her by walking away, and now she’s forced to take action. You’re making her chase you to get more of what you’ve got for her. Your action aroused her, then you take it away, and now her action must pull you in. Voila!

If she wants more, confidently tell her, “Stay with me tonight baby, I don’t want you to go.” This shows her that you have powerful feelings for her and that you are aware of her level of arousal, and you let her know that the feelings that she’s holding deep inside are mutually held. So you just had to let her know you want her to stay.

Give her small samples of your plans for her and she’ll feel the powerful emotions you have for her.

It’s not just what you say to her and what you want to do with her, it’s how you feel about what you say to her and want to do with her. As soon as you know that she feels the same way, you need to have the courage to do something about that!

Some women don’t know how they should feel about getting sexual with a man. If you are calm and relaxed about it, she’ll feel that way also. If you’re feeling super aroused, and she’s mirroring that! She’s ready to decide to stay?

All your confidence, courage, and leadership potential, is nothing without clear and deliberate action.

Let her know you want her to stay! If she’s turned on, you’ll both be glad she did!

She could still say “no”, and she has the right to do that, and a man should respect that. But for now at least, she knows how you feel about her, and how strong those feelings are for her. That is amazingly seductive to women. The next time you meet up with her could be spectacular! Some women won’t do one night stands. So give her something to think about. Second night stands can be good too!

A word on playing nice with others.

There are times when we all need to know when to back off. I certainly don’t condone abusing women, or forcing anything on them that they don’t want. Creating attraction is the mature way to win her affection.

About Terrible Kiss

The problem is a lot of guys really don’t know how to kiss a girl. Ask any woman what a bad kiss is and she will tell you:

1. Too hard

2. Rough lips

3. Too Wet

4. Too much tongue

5. Bad Breath

6. No Passion

What a lot of people don’t know is, kissing is a very important factor in a healthy relationship and sex life!

There is an art to kissing and you have to master it!

Guys have been trying to master this art for ever, but never really get to the point where they get it right. Don’t get me wrong,there are some girl who are not good at this too.

I think that the biggest mistake that you guys make in your quest to learn how to kiss, is that guys take tips from their friends and that just leads to disaster!

That’s just like asking a guy with two left feet to teach you how to dance!

Some people will never admit that they are the one who is a disappointing kisser. They dread that moment when all is going to be revealed on that porch, in that car, on that beach, or where ever it may be. Can you honestly say that you are a good kisser? Are you honest when you claim that the girls melt to your kiss? Well maybe only you know the truth about that!

When a girl allows you to kiss her, her expectations are high! She wants a nice passionate, soft kiss with the right amount of pressure, a kiss that she will remember!