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Make Men Want You

The thing is, we cannot control the process (just so you know, neither can a guy, and if he likes you, he’s probably just as scared as you about messing things up).

And if you try to push him to seal the deal, you may get him to do that, only to wake up one morning and realize he’s not the right guy for you.

What you need to do is take a deep breath. Say to yourself, “This person may be right for me. Then again, he may not. I am willing to relax, see what happens, and find out.

Here’s your new motto:

“Let’s see what happens.”

So you go out with him without the intention of making a good impression or “getting him to the next level.” You go with the intention of looking and feeling and being your best and enjoying your time with him. You listen to learn more about him. You look to see more about him. You laugh. You have fun. You are there to see what happens.

Your new attitude has a lovely side benefit:

He picks up on it. He feels your lack of urgency and desperation. Your grace and ease around him telegraph your value. He understands that you are a woman who’s taking her time. He knows you deserve the right guy, not just any guy. It’s clear you’re not going to settle.

A quality woman doesn’t scheme or manipulate. She doesn’t have to work so hard. She knows what she has to offer. Do you know what you have to offer? If not, sit down with a pen and paper right this second. Write down every good quality and talent you possess. Write down your achievements. Write down the last ten compliments you can remember receiving.

Then go out and carry yourself with the confidence of a quality woman who knows what she has to offer.

And see what happens.